Comment by zozbot234
6 hours ago
If you use an ownership/lifetime system under the hood you only pay that synchronization overhead when ownership truly changes, i.e. when a reference is added or removed that might actually impact the object's lifecycle. That's a rare case with most uses of reference counting; most of the time you're creating a "sub"-reference and its lifetime is strictly bounded by some existing owning reference.
There are 2 unavoidable atomic updates for RC, the allocation and the free event. That alone will significantly increase the amount of traffic per thread back to main memory.
A lifetime system could possibly eliminate those, but it'd be hard to add to the JVM at this point. The JVM sort of has it in terms of escape analysis, but that's notoriously easy to defeat with pretty typical java code.