Comment by otabdeveloper4
8 hours ago
> relationships that don't lead anywhere
Relationships are not transactions that are supposed to "lead somewhere".
8 hours ago
> relationships that don't lead anywhere
Relationships are not transactions that are supposed to "lead somewhere".
You’re being a bit pedantic here “leading somewhere” is accepted shorthand for a lasting, satisfying relationship that is good for both parties.
Most people engage in romantic relationships because they'd like to find someone to marry and settle down with. Nothing but respect for the people who've thought it through and decided that's not for them, but what's much more common is failing to think it through or worrying it would be awkward/scary/"cringe" to take their relationship goals seriously.
That's what people are pointing to when they talk about relationships not "leading anywhere". If you want to be married in 5-10 years, and you're 2 years into an OK relationship with someone you don't want to marry, it's going to suck to break up with them but you have to do it anyway.