Comment by joshka

My perspective on the rationale for splitting short/long help is that optimizing for the reader's time is a reasonable thing to do. Often I just need a refresher of what options are available. But sometimes I need a deeper understanding of what each option controls and how. (Yes I understand that this should be in man pages). There needs to be a reasonable way to control the verbosity of the help output from the command line however.

I agree with your point that most flags should generally treat short versions as exact aliases to long flags, but I just think that a convention that treats -h and --help as concise vs long is 100% reasonable. The distinction is often breadth vs depth.