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Comment by JohnMakin

4 hours ago

> The number of times I see my words interpreted as though my choice in words had been imprecise is a near constant source of pain, particularly in the workspace. I might be on the spectrum, I am undiagnosed.

I often deal with the same, I am usually quite literal in both what I say/mean and what I hear from people. The latter I've got a lot better with, but communication can practically be impossible sometimes - neurotypical people have an insane network of filters and biases (not saying these dont exist elsewhere, just from my pov) that a message goes through before they decide what they "think" you meant, rather than just interpreting the actual words said as they were said.

It's a lot like one of my favorite tweets, something like:

Person X: "I love pancakes!" Random Twitter guy: "SO THEN YOU'RE SAYING YOU HATE WAFFLES???"

In work situations though, I feel AI has actually helped clarify what I "mean" a lot better than I could, at least with the people that typically used to constantly misunderstand me (which felt like on purpose at times).

That Random twitter guy is obviously just agitated & ready to pounce on someone.

Honestly, half of these "neurotypicals are so confusing" posts just look like people who dont want to admit they have social anxiety and are hard to get along with as a result.