Comment by hodgehog11

You are essentially correct, which is why stochastic gradient optimizers induce a low-sharpness bias. However, there is an awful lot more that complicates things. There are plenty of wide minima that it can get stuck in far away from where people typically initialise, so the initialisation scheme proves extremely important (but is mostly done for you).

Perhaps more important, just because it is easy to escape any local minimum does not mean that there is necessarily a trend towards a really good optimum, as it can just bounce between a bunch of really bad ones for a long time. This actually happens almost all the time if you try to design your entire architecture from scratch, e.g. highly connected networks. People who are new to the field sometimes don't seem to understand why SGD doesn't just always fix everything; this is why. You need very strong inductive biases in your architecture design to ensure that the loss (which is data-dependent so you cannot ascertain this property a priori) exhibits a global bowl-like shape (we often call this a 'funnel') to provide a general trajectory for the optimizer toward good solutions. Sometimes this only works for some optimizers and not others.

This is why architecture design is something of an art form, and explaining "why neural networks work so well" is a complex question involving a ton of parts, all of which contribute in meaningful ways. There are often plenty of counterexamples to any simpler explanation.