Comment by coldtea
17 hours ago
>Then how can you have a community that is welcoming to people who are not part of the ingroup?
Being welcoming to every random person is by definition not a community, it's a free-for-all mess.
A community means communal interests and values, it's in the name. And to guard those you can't just be accepting everyone without vetoing them. That's how it turns to a shit of spammers and trolls and people who want to hijack it and don't share the original cause/spirit. Has happened to forum after forum...
We are trying to make new immigrants feel at home. This is the purpose we gather around.
We were talking about online communities, but still, the same principle applies. If you just let anyone in, there eventually would be less there to feel "at home" about, and more of a disjointed and low trust number of individuals loosely held together by virtue of just being in the same place.
I agree with you. It’s the problem I can’t crack and it’s why I am letting the idea simmer for so long.
In the end, you need to filter people at the door. You need to keep unpleasant people out and shut down bad behaviour.
I figured that a paid, motivated moderator could be better than a web of trust for this demographic. Maybe enforce a stricter moderation standard on unvetted members. At my scale it might work.