Comment by selcuka
9 hours ago
I don't fully disagree, but the bullying will not stop if they see that they can beat you up easily. It might even get worse.
9 hours ago
I don't fully disagree, but the bullying will not stop if they see that they can beat you up easily. It might even get worse.
I can think of only 3 times where i or someone else confronted a bully and made it stop. In 2 of those cases the bully was stronger but such stuff can always carry risks that the bully might not like or scenarios they can't take.
In the first the bully eventually got hit with a school desk (they were fairly light but hard) pretty bad by the victim that finally crashed out and the bully actually looked like a wimpering fool in front of a ton of people. As far as I know he didn't try to get back at the victim.
In the second it was I that flipped out and had some luck. I didn't seriously hurt him but he realized the blind intent in the moment was there. He just seemed shocked and no longer bothered
The 3rd guy had some Moroccan machismo thing going and kept picking on people he couldn't beat and it always happened fairly conventionally without suprise.
How about the amount of times when the bully didn't stop? That's the useful metric here. When there was resistance, how effective was it?
Judging from your description you didn't lay out any examples of where fighting back failed.