Comment by miki123211

When you learn calculus, you learn three things: the intuitions behind the concepts, the formal definitions of those concepts, and the techniques to efficiently solve problems using these concepts without a computer; things like integration by parts or by substitution.

If what you want to understand is neural networks, even at a deep level, you need a very good intuitive grasp of what derivatives are (without necessarily understanding what a limit is, if you really want to show a definition, teach the infinitesimal). You also need to understand the rules of derivation, which you can relatively easily explain if you explain derivatives. You don't need other calculus concepts (like limits, sequences or integrals). You don't need the formal definitions. You don't need to solve large derivatives on paper, and you certainly don't need to be fast at it and be able to do it in a closed-book exam setting.