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Comment by bluegatty

15 hours ago

Your local library has age and ID requirements.

Your local 'town square' has 'some rules'.

Parents are entirely able to overcome any of this if they so choose - including feeding their kids alcohol, guns etc. - and so the freedom does materially exist.

Social Media isn't a place for free expression - it's mostly toxic - like exposing your children to the most vile, inauthentic people.

The more genteel places, frankly, won't have much in the way of age restrictions.

Entire nations are banning social media for kids because it's just not healthy - the teachers want it, the parents want it, the data seems to support it.

I think you're right to be (very concerned) but this is a necessary discussion. As a teacher.

> Your local library has age and ID requirements.

It literally doesn't (at least not if I don't intend to borrow a book and take it home; if I stay there and read, I can do so without any ID. I only need ID to get a library card, and I don't need that to enter and read a book).

  • It literally does - and you just admitted it.

    The point is that 'even the local library' enacts rules and social conventions - not that they're exhaustively and acutely enforced in all corners.

    No 4chan section in the library?

    You might wonder why it doesn't have vast array of avant guard adult content, porn or art with really aggressive themes and people calling each other the n-word?

    In society we have 'age related' conventions all over the place ... including your Library.

    This is the absolute worst of HN, where people dissolve into Reddit-like discussions of bad meatphors and totally out of context hair splitting.

    I just can't believe anyone here has any relationship with the reality of children, teaching or parenting whatsoever. It's the same argument made by the 'drugs should be legal and accessible' crowd - completely oblivious to the instantaneous massive health epidemic we'd have with opioids and fentanyl, or the 'anti vaxer' crowd - narrow ideological arguments about expression disconnected from any kind of reality or nuance.

    There's a variation of social media that will be fine for the kids, they can be exposed to more into their late teens. Parents that want to opt out, will de facto be allowed to - and there is always a slippery slope with every law.

    • > It literally does - and you just admitted it.

      I can be 9 years old and go to the library and read any book they have without showing ID. Whatever your point is, it escapes me.

      > The point is that 'even the local library' enacts rules and social conventions - not that they're exhaustively and acutely enforced in all corners.

      Then let us do the same thing on the internet. Age verification is not that (at least in the forms being pushed).

      > No 4chan section in the library?

      No, but there are 4chan-style books I can read there. Anything that isn't outright illegal (Anarchist's cookbook) is pretty darn available there.

      > You might wonder why it doesn't have vast array of avant guard adult content, porn or art with really aggressive themes and people calling each other the n-word?

      That'd be because it does have books like that. Your point continues to escape me. Maybe my library is really pushing whatever limits.

      > I just can't believe anyone here has any relationship with the reality of children, teaching or parenting whatsoever

      I've literally been an assistant teacher for about a year. You probably won't believe me though.

      > It's the same argument made by the 'drugs should be legal and accessible' crowd

      Who I agree with! Funny how that works!

      > completely oblivious to the instantaneous massive health epidemic we'd have with opioids and fentanyl

      Imagine a world where we can have that regulated, so people know what they're taking, and can see a doctor to get help without getting the police on their back, rather than the unregulated shitshow we have now.

      > or the 'anti vaxer' crowd - narrow ideological arguments about expression disconnected from any kind of reality or nuance.

      This comparison escapes me too. Anti-vax started with (or at least got a massive growth boost by) Andrew Wakefield, whose paper was based on science so bad and whose research was so heinous he's no longer a doctor. If the 'drugs should be legal and accessible' stance is based on science that bad, I'd love to see it.

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My local librarian did not restrict my books to the kids section when I was a kid. Also librarians have fought civil legal battles to keep reading activities anonymous. Libraries are unlike the restrictions and risks of the proposed legislation being discussed for social media

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    --> Your local library fought for your right to read literature of some kind.

    ---> They did not fight for your right to gang up on others and call them the n-word, to spread lies and slander about people, to harass children and expose them to creeps and pedophiles, to inundate children with hyper-targeted advertising, or 'Andrew Tate 'how to beat women' seminars'.

    Nobody is pushing for a ban on social media so that the kids will be stopped from reading 'Judy Bloom' stories about a girl's 'first period'.

    It's disingenuous to suggest that this has anything to do with the causes your librarians stand for.

    Literally the opposite - your librarians are creating essentially 'safe spaces' for kids so they can read and be civil.

    • The past few years have seen attempts to get The Diary of Anne Frank pulled from libraries, along with any mention of LGBT or Black people. What makes you think that this will be used to protect kids from racial, sexual and misogynistic abuse, let alone predatory businesses?

    • Im not sure of your direction as the age verification legislation also does not address this:

      | They did not fight for your right to gang up on others and call them the n-word, to spread lies and slander about people, to harass children and expose them to creeps and pedophiles, to inundate children with hyper-targeted advertising, or 'Andrew Tate 'how to beat women' seminars'.

      I think existing laws should be engaged to address pedophiles and incitement of violence in public spaces and social media - no new legislation is really needed. Barring potential victims from a place instead of prosecuting the noxious behavior from the public place seems like an odd approach indeed.

      As for libraries - libraries are curated spaces of freedom that are obviously under assault by right wing parties to ban books that support cultural and personal acceptance for other societies as well as out groups like lgbt information, and even basic women's health information. The problem for authoritarians is libraries are too free - not that they are "curated".