Comment by Cider9986
16 hours ago
It's not hard to disagree politely. People do it all the time.
The thing you are missing is that discourse is terrible when people are rude. It's full of name calling, tone policing and moves away from the topic.
16 hours ago
It's not hard to disagree politely. People do it all the time.
The thing you are missing is that discourse is terrible when people are rude. It's full of name calling, tone policing and moves away from the topic.
I’m not missing anything. I used to use Usenet, notorious for flamewars. What you’re missing is that when you don’t try to control and nanny people, they can settle into an equilibrium on their own.
Edit: also, I find it revealing that you felt compelled to include that bit about "the thing you are missing", which is just a passive-aggressive way to call me an idiot who can't even see what you consider an obvious consequence. If you're honest with yourself, you'll admit that. I'd much rather someone be honest than fake polite.