Comment by mlyle
5 hours ago
> We should all be picking berries all the time
I don't think that he wants to pick berries all the time. Or be without his family all the time (even though he prefers being on his own with the berries).
I envy the guy. I wouldn't want to pick berries all the time. But having a routine source of release and tuning out like that which happens to commune with nature and use one's hands...
I was building workbenches for my students last week. A lot of the time was spent outside breaking down pallets and staging things. It was too hot, but I saw the trees sway, the few puffy clouds move, the lizards dart through my path, the squirrels squabble. The few times the wind suddenly picked up felt like heaven. My body ached in new ways. My fingers got into a rhythm and I watched them do things.
I could easily get a job doing work like that. No! I want to be with my students, and I want to work on my hard cerebral projects. But there is a joy to being in nature and to do things with your hands, and there is a rhythm to doing time consuming work, and when we make time for it, it feels really good in a primal way.
> I don't think that he wants to pick berries all the time.
I was using that as a metaphor. Meaning, we should be living a life where there is no manufactured societal stress we need to escape.
> Meaning, we should be living a life where there is no manufactured societal stress we need to escape.
I don't think that at all. I think struggle and making stuff better and working hard and feeling ourselves grow is great.
And I wish I had something routine like his picking of berries, because sometimes just feeling existence and our place in it... feels really good. I'm envious of the people who find a routine that does this well for them, while I mostly find it by happenstance.
And I think you do better at the other stuff when you go pick berries.