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Comment by amanaplanacanal

1 month ago

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

First hit in a Kagi search.

yeah, if you ignore what the op said, it sounds similar.

  • I have no idea how trustworthy this study is - but it claims that 62% of women had such a fantasy at least once. How is that not in line with what the OP said about it being "surprisingly common"?

    • Many rock climbers have felt the "call of the void" when climbing, I've felt it myself on a multi-pitch once, I'd hardly claim they are suicidal or have suicidal ideations and would not identify myself as either. I think there needs to be a certain level of intention to make the fantasy reality for it to be a kink.

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