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Comment by georgemcbay

6 hours ago

Nope.

They can pretend to, of course, and use the language of grief, but if you can't feel the cold bottomless pit that has bored through your gut then you aren't really grieving.

How do you know that they don’t? And conversely, how do you know any other human than yourself do?

  • Do books grieve? I ascribe the same kind of interaction to llm's. They work on a different substrate than us and their perception of reality, if there is any, will be wholly different than our perception because of the constraints of the substrate itself.

    Not to mention the lack of continuity of existence kind of precludes any deeper and more meaningful interactions with the self.

    I am not saying that they are unable to feel, but at the current structure and ephemeral existance they are unable to do so, they lack the minimum prerequisites.

Do whales grieve?

  • > Do whales grieve?

    Just as much as any human that isn't me, as far as I can tell from all available evidence.

    So, yes, I absolutely believe they grieve, just like I believe humans who aren't me grieve.

  • They exhibit behaviours that seem to defy alternative explanations, though I doubt anyone could say for certain whether they do or don’t

    • You could have an alternative explanation: large animals invest lots of food energy in their offspring, and so the slimmest chance that a calf might not be dead is worth lots of effort. Say one in a thousand actually revive.

      Here's an article about orcas: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-64559047

      It seems that an orca invests so much in a son that it's like an all-or-nothing one way ticket to pass her genes on. (She might get second try later, but the probability is much lower.)

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    • Indeed. The same goes for widows at funerals. I mean, has anyone ever dissected the brain of a grieving human and said “aha hah! Here it is!! The grief!”

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    • > They exhibit behaviours that seem to defy alternative explanations

      No, they really don't. The article says

      > indicated an inherent, strong maternal attachment to the calf

      Yeah, that's not grieving.

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