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Comment by gonzalohm

20 days ago

This may not be shared by other people, but my two cents.

I personally don't like inviting people to my house (or going to other people's houses) because I already spend a good chunk of my day indoors (I work from home). Whenever possible, I prefer to meet outside.

When I was growing up, a good deal of these sorts of parties involved backyards, barbecues, and swimming pools. Rarely did we spend time indoors.

  • This might explain the decline then, as with the price of housing going up less people can afford a place that has a backyard (let alone a pool!)

  • I remember when i was young going out on vacations with school friends and their parents for several days. Also similar to weekends at country houses. The trend was that a couple of parents liked to host the get togethers and didn’t mind 10 adults and 20 children of different ages running around the place

  • None of my friends have a backyard big enough to host a BBQ

    • Not sure the kind of size you are talking about but you might be overestimating how much space it takes. My current rental has a back yard about the size of a single car garage and I’ve been able to host a ~50 person bbq with a mix of people standing inside and out.

I think the point of the article is more about meeting with others at all, as opposed to it specifically being at home. So hang out with friends outside!