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Comment by gendal

4 days ago

I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. This sounds utterly devastating. (And apologies if my message above sounded like a criticism... that wasn't the intent at all)

I'm very critical of myself and my family, she was the head of the house so to speak, and she was the one making decisions. She didn't want to see the doctor so in those few weeks we gave in, I think she was afraid of everything that followed, the prognosis wasn't good. Nothing in the slightest prepared us for this outcome, it was a total blind spot. It was very much in the wrong moment, many different life changing things all at once.