Comment by swiftcoder

6 years ago

Unfortunately, if "xyz" is one of the approaches they did already try/dismiss, it still comes across as patronising.

Really? I've never considered it patronising.

"Have you tried x?"

"Yes, that's the first thing I tried."

"Hmm, how about y?"

"That too."

"Well that has me beat. Unless maybe you tried something crazy like z..."

"Actually, with a slight modification that might just work well enough for this!"

  • This is a discussion between 2 more or less equally clever persons. The problem is when 1 person is clever and the other is not (and you probably don’t know yet).