Comment by underwater

Usually those topics don't fall prey to moral policing.

An example might be someone arguing "trans women are not really women". If the question doesn't affect them personally, they're just pursuing what they see as a rational debate or stretching their mind. Their lives will not actually be affected by the exercise.

If you're a trans woman then that's an argument you've been exposed to hundreds of times and it's demeaning and emotional.

You can argue that you're just being rational. And you might ever change your mind! But it's a shitty thing to force that conversation on people when they're only the ones who have a stake in the outcome.

It's not censorship if you are choosing to hold your tongue out of consideration for others.