Comment by ramtatatam

4 years ago

> "There was another time that he insisted on having intercourse regardless of me saying I didn’t want to"

This is rape is it not? Whoever this guy is, in my opinion this case should get in front of the judges. I can't imagine what the author of the story have gone through.

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mirekrusin  4 years ago

Rape is doing it, not insisting, I think.

  • ramtatatam  4 years ago

    > "I felt being taken advantage of that he had unprotected sex with me when I was intoxicated. Nothing felt right. I remember panicking and crying."

    After reading above and then seeing the part about "insisting" I feel there was more behind this statement. The author's circumstances was also very easy to be taken advantage of. I'm not woman but my guess is there probably is shock involved in situations like this. People are not acting in reasonable ways when in shock..

  • Pfhreak  4 years ago

    Sex was had while she did not consent, she mentions in the fifth paragraph.

    • ALittleLight  4 years ago

      Slightly later she writes "I maintained friendship with him for a few months after May, because I was convinced that it was all consensual". I think it is something of a philosophical issue to debate about whether you can think you consented and later determine you didn't. It's also strange to me that it takes months and consultation with a therapist to determine if you did or did not consent.

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