Comment by anon_tor_12345
4 years ago
>advance towards you, instead of feeling flattered and politely declining
Do you know what "advance" means? It's old-timey English for aggression as in
"The enemy advanced on the capital".
No that's not how it's used to today but it still typically has very negative connotations. So I think it's rich irony that due to your own (probable) inarticulateness and (probable) bias you think something that could experienced as violence should be flattering.
> Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.
Sex has always had aggressive and domination elements. Some women even request you slap them during.