Comment by soueuls

Definitely someone I would consider a creep and I would advise introvert women to stay away from. Because his manners seem to be quite predatory, and he tried to keep in touch with her while she asked him to back off.

But I can't really consider him a rapist, I read her statement, I read his.

She repeatedly shows she was unsure about her feeling, she doubted herself, she even remained friends for several months. Having sex with a drunk stranger is pretty lame, but all of these things make me believe she did not explicitly refused, she probably went along, internally horrified but externally somewhat willing.

I don't know what I would do if many years after, someone called me out publicly by claiming they did not consent, I would certainly feel sorry I hurt someone, but I would not consider myself a rapist and would treat myself like one.