Comment by Gary_Boooossy

4 years ago

Do you really share these things in a professional context? What country was this in?

You're getting downvoted to hell, but I'm going to respond anyway. The parent poster here is fully transitioning their gender. They're not cross-dressing at night, they're not "closeted trans"--they're changing their identity for their whole life, in all contexts--personal, professional, etc. Furthermore, they don't want to be known by their old identity anymore--in the parlance, that's called a deadname. So they're informing people of that happening, of who they're identifying as from now on.

It’s often considered professional courtesy to let people know when a property that matters to 99% of humanity (name and gender) changes permanently. Everyone takes a different approach. There are upsides and downsides to the “email autoresponder” method, but it’s certainly an acceptable option in local instances of context.

  • It turns out, people generally don’t change the terms of address they use for you unless you ask them to!

    • There are certain predictable exceptions, like when the physical changes reach a threshold of severe mismatch versus your old name and they get uncomfortable and figure it out (or ask :)

Is there any professional context where you wouldn't share when your professional email address changed?