Comment by xiphias2

My ex girlfriend detected breast cancer early at age 28, but the doctors told her that she's ,,too young'' to have cancer. 1 year later on the checkup they said that it's too late (she has BRCA1 mutation). The last 10 years have been fighting with cancer, having about 10 operations on her, but the worst thing was chemotherapy (she said that she would rather die than go through it again, I think the dose had been too large for her probably as well, as she's 44kg). The cancer went away and came back multiple times, and it got so bad that we had to separate, but she's still my best friend (and I didn't find any other person to spend my life with).

She's right now on an experimental checkpoint inhibitor (stage 4 metastatic since a year ago), and it probably gives her another few months, but every time I see her I think that she only has a year left in her life and get sometimes frustrated that the experiments are not optimized to get the more effective treatments in earlier stage.