Comment by jackconsidine

3 years ago

I enjoyed this read. I'm typically an interviewer in conversations and assumed that was the less abrasive way to be. Just the other day though, I realized that it's probably preferable for a conversation partner to be given the option to comment on an inviting declaration than to be forced to answer a question.

True. A date with an interviewer can be flattering if they are engaged in your answers, but interviewing is also a subtle way to control the flow of information and remain private.