Comment by yccs27

How nucleons (neutrons and protons) are bound together is similar to a molecule. If they are close enough, they can 'share' their constituent quarks. You can calculate the interaction by a feynman diagram where the two nucleons exchange one quark in each direction. This is technically the same as one nucleon sending and the other absorbing a quark-antiquark pair, which is why physicists like to say that the nucleon attraction is transmitted by mesons (quark-antiquark pairs). Of course fundamentally the strong force still facilitates the whole interaction, as it's the one preventing nucleons from just falling apart into quarks.