Comment by Karrot_Kream

> I came on-line at the tail end of it, when the denizens of the old were trying to find their footing in the new. IRC, mailing groups, early phpBB boards.

Ah you're actually talking about a time slightly before I'm talking about. I agree with what you mean when it comes to good-natured acculturation. A lot of those people left to the Web (or used both.) Later on a lot of the people that still used non-web services became more defensive about their parts of the net and doubled down on it.

> While the "revenge of the nerds" memes, "Jocks being bosses in high school, nerds being bosses at work" was a good joke / dream to discharge some frustrations over, it didn't materialize either.

The reason I didn't like it was because it classified the world into two types of people. Were band kids nerds or jocks? I never identified strongly with either end of the spectrum due to growing up in a low income area, so I found the entire thing to be problematic and exclusive in the wrong way.