Comment by jzb
2 years ago
I think "western society" is way too broad a brush. Within the U.S. there's extremes between ask and guess, IME. (Some of that is breaking down due to mobility... regional differences are much less pronounced these days, I think, especially in cities, since there's so much cross-pollination.)
Yeah, I feel like the point of the article was to recognize that there are two sides to the framework with strong traits on each end, but that most social interactions do (and should) happen somewhere in the middle. The trouble tends to crop up when two people who both away from the center in opposite directions try to interact. (which can happen even in well-established relationships.)