Comment by kolanos
2 years ago
I actually think there's an inversion of ask/guess spectrum and it is the offer/guess spectrum.
To add on to a GP's example of the northern U.S. being predominantly an ask culture and the southern U.S. being a guess culture, I think the inverse is true for offering things as opposed to asking for them.
Southern hospitality is very much an offer culture. Whether you need or want something, it will be offered. The guess culture aspect of asking flips when it comes to offering. In the south it is widely considered rude to not impulsively offer even when you know you're likely going to get a "no".
However, in the north the reverse is true. Usually you will only be offered something when it is apparent that thing is wanted or needed. It is actually considered something of an imposition to be offered something you don't want or need.
In other words, I don't think you can just cast these cultures as high context and low context, it is more a case of where the culture places contextual importance.
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