Comment by ryzvonusef

    > Turns out, unfathomable tragic loss isn't very hard. It's easy, in fact. Easy in the same way that falling off a cliff is "easy"–gravity does all the work for you. It's not like climbing mount Everest, desperately putting one foot in front of the other. It's not like struggling to answer questions in a final exam. Tragic loss is just something that happens to you.

Lars, that was very deeply insightful for me. Thank you for sharing this, it helped me understand my own grief in a new light.

I wish I could say something to help you in the way your words have helped me. I only wish you some measure of happiness, in what way or form it may come, and may your future days be of peace.