Comment by anon291

For us, because of our apartment we were looking at very young (less than a year old since we didn't have a separate bed room).

They showed us studies that even infant adoptees tended towards the educational achievement of their genetic parents, not their adopted ones, for example.

Again, I don't even know if it's right or wrong, but the agency we were working with thought we should know that.

EDIT: Okay, here's an example: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/adoption-and-genetics-imp_b_4...

And reading that I'm reminded of the agency we were going with: PACT in Berkeley.