Comment by analog31

2 years ago

Repurposing a psychological model as a way to gain insight or start a conversation is one of the five stages of debunking.

/s

As someone who has multiple times had to face my own mortality and that has death seemingly always looming over me.

I think the 5 stages do make sense for self grief as it was originally researched, during time spent with those actually dying.

As someone who lost both parents in my early 20s I think it is helpful model to be aware of during the acute phase of a terminal diagnosis ... but yeah, it's inadequate in the extreme.

Denial, anger, and bargaining are coping mechanisms, so it shouldn’t be too surprising to see them appear when tightly-held beliefs and narratives are challenged by reality.