Comment by geocrasher

3 and 1/2 years ago I lost my mate prematurely. A long protracted illness with much pain and suffering. I'm sorry for you and your wife are going through and have gone through. It is very hard.

There were a lot of things that helped me through. If your wife would ever like to talk to someone who's been through it, even though I'm a guy, she is always welcome to reach out to me.

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