Comment by kentonv

5 days ago

We do have an ERV. But I suppose the cat fans don't actually exhaust through it. Maybe we could have arranged that had we thought harder about it before construction...

Sir, I want to add that it was deeply inspiring. While I’m struggling at 40 just being a CEO of 14 people, which by one measure is excellent but I have put aside so many lives for it and failed at all my social ventures (yes I mean friends and dates); You, you succeed to have time for a wife (a potentially intellectually interesting person at that, according to your brief summary), you succeed to build a house, manage a lot of people at work, have friends with proper deep connections, and still have energy for home renovations. It’s like you’re living 9 lives at once. Oh yeah and kids. Like my uncle, who, beyond children, still had time for home renovations to build a cozy nest everywhere they lived.

In this day of international men’s day, maybe I should still enquire about your internal mental health, because stress can be discreet, but still, the outer appearance you give from your allocation of time and clarity of mind seems absolutely perfect.

  • Well I certainly do get stressed sometimes (particularly when cat-herding at work) but overall really can't complain!

    BTW it's not a renovation, we build the house from scratch on an empty lot. :)