Comment by wrs

Yes, I agree, when it gets to the level of "that made someone vaguely uncomfortable" rather than "that ruined someone's entire life", it no longer qualifies. So, how do you effectively fight the latter without ending up fighting about the former? "Working quietly" doesn't seem like a good answer. This is an unsolved problem that PG seemingly isn't much interested in solving; he's more interested in how people talk about it.