Comment by mustache_kimono

10 months ago

> You can literally shove facts in someone's face, and they won't admit to being wrong or misunderstand, and instead continue to argue against some points whose premise isn't even true.

I think that's part of the gag.

"These people are members of a community who care about where they live... So what I hear is people caring very loudly at me." -- Leslie Knope

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=areUGfOHkMA

>"These people are members of a community who care about where they live... So what I hear is people caring very loudly at me." -- Leslie Knope

that's a very healthy and - I feel - correct attitude towards this kind of criticism. I love when wisdom comes from stupid places.

  • Its quite a well-known wisdom. I think someone in one of Nintendo or Sony's studios has said it too, in the form of: a complaint is worth twice a compliment.

    Satisfied customers will tell you they think your stuff is great, but dissatisfied customers will be able to hone in on exactly where the problem is.

    You can even extend this to personal life: if someone tells you your shabby car doesn't fit with the nice suits you wear, you can either take it as a personal attack and get irritated, or take it as feedback and wash your car, spruce up the upholstery and replace the missing wheel cap. In effect they helped you take note of something.

    • One does not "hone in" on anything. To hone a thing is to make it sharper or more acute by removing parts of it with an abrasive. The word you are looking for is "home", as in a homing missile, etc.

      Yes, this is a criticism. Hopefully it's twice as effective as being nice. 8)

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    • > dissatisfied customers will be able to hone in on exactly where the problem is

      This sounds like a truism, when it isn't. The client may know something is wrong, but good luck at them identifying it. Some times, the client will convince themselves that something is wrong when it isn't. There were people complaining about lag in WoW, they responded by cutting the latency number in half... except that it wasn't cut in half, it was just measured as time to server rather than roundtrip. The complains died out immediately and they were hailed as "very savvy developers that listen to their customers".