Comment by mmooss

Whether to speak or not is often different than whether to be honest or not. I don't tell people that I find their hairdo to be awful.

In the case of the OP, arguably it's assumed that if it would impact your employer, you will tell them. Not telling them is therefore dishonest - it's strongly implying there is no problem. (For the OP, it depends heavily on the employer and their relationship.)

> It's also cost me a /lot/.

Is there an option that doesn't cost you a lot?