Comment by UncleOxidant

1 day ago

> but something about strangers standing over my shoulder judging me, determining my financial future by providing or withholding a job, like the sword of Damocles, turns my stomach inside out ... I'm not a stage performer.

This resonates. I'm now in my early 60s. Oddly, in my 20s and 30s I could interview reasonably well. But as time went on, I think the interviewing styles became more confrontational.Whereas earlier on they were trying to find reasons to hire you, later on it was more that they were trying to find reasons not to hire you. Possibly this is somewhat attributable to ageism, but I think it was a change in the industry as well. Over the last 15 years or so I found interviewing to be increasingly unpleasant. Started having panic attacks in interviews. Somehow I still managed to get hired places (and I started doing more contracting where interviewing wasn't required because they were familiar with my work). When the startup I was working in lost it's funding at the end of '22 I decided it was time to hang it up and retire. Not because I don't like the work (I really do) and not because my skills were out of date (in the last startup I was working on optimizing AI algorithms to various hardware - CPUs, GPUs, FPGAs), but because I just couldn't face interviewing anymore and I really didn't need to.

Exactly this for me the last couple of years. Interviewing at most companies these days results in me getting through the final rounds only to be presented with “feedback” about all the secret things they really wanted that I didn’t meet the bar for. The feedback is often extremely vague but is always a list of shortcomings and rarely a list of strengths. The companies that do provide strengths are the ones I feel bad about missing.

Interviews aren't always confrontational. I have been using the same pair programming exercise for roughly the last hundred interviews. There are no tricky algorithms, just walking through the implementation of a basic rest endpoint. It's cooperative and I want the candidate to ask questions. If you can code at fizzbuzz level, are comfortable writing tests, and know a little about databases, it's easy.

There are probably great programmers out there that think pairing is horrible and stressful and this is the interview from hell. I accept that, but I also think that being able to pair and communicate is an important job skill. I want a team, not brilliant lone wolves.

  • The pair programming thing works great as an actual work sample test. I think it works best when neither person knows the answer though.

    If one of you already knows what they want to see, it’s not really pair programming.

    Either way though your process is already better than 90% of companies.

    • For the most part I think this is right though I'm not opposed to a quick screener. It reminds me more of the traditional engineering interview, which is more about how you think. Knowledge is good, but it usually isn't hard to obtain. But the way you think? That's much harder to change. I'd love to optimize for both, but if I have to pick I'd rather have someone who has a good engineering mind. Seems even more important these days, because if I just wanted to optimize for knowledge I'd just use an LLM and RAG.

  • My last three jobs all did pair programming so we structured our interviews to be similar, and they’re still my favorite interviews I’ve conducted. Many candidates also praised the format, whether they were hired or not.

  • This is how I've conducted a few interviews at a startup. I take pains to emphasize that:

    1. I'm just looking for pseudocode, nobody cares about whether you do length(items) or items.size(), etc. The code won't even be run.

    2. Invent functions without necessarily defining them, I'll object if doAllTheWork() needs to be fleshed out.

    3. The problem/docs presented are the whole thing for the interview. There might be bugs to uncover, but there's no secret second phase to the boss battle.

    Ultimately, I'm looking for them to assemble the basic building blocks, and see what suggestions they have when I point out issues like error, handling, stale data, security, etc.

There was a major industry change in technical interviewing practices after Google hit it big. They very publicly optimized their process to minimize false positives even at the expense of a high rate of false negatives. This included live coding and "brain teaser" type questions. Google was then wildly successful and so people in the industry assumed that their interviewing process was one of the reasons why. So a lot of other tech companies superficially copied the Google process in a "cargo cult" approach.

And I'm not claiming that the old Google approach was necessarily wrong or bad (I understand their current process has significantly changed but don't know the details). As an industry we still haven't figured out what the best practice should be. Everyone is still guessing. Every company seems to think they have an excellent hiring process but there are no real controlled experiments or hard data in that area. Who knows?

  • Let's not forget it became a business. Gayle Laakmann wrote a book, became a consultant, and I'm sure earned a whole lot of money convincing companies that she'd found the perfect path to hiring great engineers.

    I think she had a willing audience because a lot of companies weren't sure they were interviewing the 'right' way. It's always easier to tell your bosses you are following the advice of a top consultant than to try to tell them why you have a better strategy than the FAANGs.

  • > Everyone is still guessing.

    This isn't actually true, as the article points out; there is actually tons of empirical research.

    • Virtually none of that research is actually high-quality, reproducible, and correlated with organizational outcomes. I don't see it as really actionable one way or the other.

> This resonates. I'm now in my early 60s. Oddly, in my 20s and 30s I could interview reasonably well. But as time went on, I think the interviewing styles became more confrontational.Whereas earlier on they were trying to find reasons to hire you, later on it was more that they were trying to find reasons not to hire you. Possibly this is somewhat attributable to ageism, but I think it was a change in the industry as well.

At one point in my past, I was planning to do a career change over to Investment Banking (I know, I know... don't laugh), so I interviewed at a bunch of banks. These guys are notorious about how annoying and uncomfortable they make their interviews. They'll deliberately grief you and try to throw you off your game to see how you react, soft-skill-wise, under stress. Like they'll ask you a question about calculating a discounted cash flow, and then while you're answering they'll make a phone call to someone, just to see how you deal with disrespect.

While tech interviewing hasn't gone to those extremes, I definitely agree we seem to be moving that direction: interviewers seem to be deliberately looking for ways to stress/haze the candidate, for whatever reason. Something I never experienced interviewing in tech < 2005 or so.

  • > interviewers seem to be deliberately looking for ways to stress/haze the candidate, for whatever reason.

    Probably caused by a tight market where there's greater pressure to filter a larger pool of candidates, and company cultures have worsened due to economic pressures.

This really resonates with me. It's hard to describe just how enjoyable and more importantly interesting tech interviews used to be. I can't think of one in the past decade that's left an impression on me. Now interviews feel like I'm playing Trivial Pursuit with a very non-technical George Costanza, trying to convey years of experience verbally when the card says Moops.

> earlier on they were trying to find reasons to hire you, later on it was more that they were trying to find reasons not to hire you

Have you by chance been pursuing roles at increasingly larger and more lucrative orgs?

I've worked at several startups, and those were clearly more looking for reasons to hire. Now at a FAANG, the interview process was clearly more in the looking for reasons not to hire direction...

> I think it was a change in the industry as well.

It's very true, I did not interview from about 2006 to 2014, and had no problems before, but had a noticeable feeling of "wtf is going on?" after this (and still do feel that way tbh).

It's the money. It's all about the money. Things are pretty low stress and low stakes when you're hiring for a 50k pure salary role. When things blew up into the mid six figures with stock incentives, it became a whole thing. This pervades the work environment too. Everyone is scared to death of saying the wrong thing or messing something up or sounding stupid because it means your 800k mortgage won't be getting paid next month. I hate it.

  • Your 800k mortgage not getting paid is one thing, but when there's a partner and kids who need money to eat, it's a whole other level.