Comment by borroka

We also live in a very negative society in which it seems that we get paid to criticize ourselves and others. Stuff that should be easy wraps itself in a thorny tangle of trauma, insecurity, and impossibility. I have a 50+% success in making people lose weight by telling them, "You should lose some pounds. You will feel and look much better, and that's what you deserve". Nobody told them. Some call it agency, but how do you build it, especially when it looks like half the world wants you to fail?