Comment by ProllyInfamous

2 days ago

I'm the only middle-aged person I know that doesn't use/carry a smart phone (I also don't use email).

>One of my relatives attempted suicide when she was very young, you can guess why.

This misses that even more young ladies are attempting, today, albeit for entirely different reasons. I'll let you guess why.

If you don't use e-mail, what do you use for electronic one to one communication or do you write letters and sent them by post?

  • >Write letters and send them by post.

    Lots of memes/postcards. I also have a part-time secretary (only for scheduling/mailing).

    If I need to "sign up" somewhere, I use a burner/temporary email.

    Free-est man alive.

    • That's great and that's what I aspire, but as it's so easy and quick typing and sending a mail I just send it like that. I remember the days before when I hand wrote the occasional letter and delivered it myself or sent it by post.

      Would you consider handwriting a letter and then fax2email it also an option, if not why not? Writing a letter can be much more intentional, but the sending process could be automated.

      I remember I bought a german book with bundled talks/essays at the Goetheanum bookshop last year about how to relate to the digital revolution. Distracted by the internet I haven't had time yet to read the book. "Das Ende des Menschen? Wege durch und aus dem Transhumanismus" (The End of Man? Ways Through and Out of Transhumanism), edited by Ariane Eichenberg and Christiane Haid.

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It's not a competition between eras to see which is worse, my point is only that smartphones fill a need for isolated adults. That can be true and they can still pose a problem for teenagers, it's two separate issues.

I find most of the debate on smartphone use tends to fall on the extreme. Why not find a happy middle ground and recognize that they do have valid uses?