Comment by Dylan16807

4 months ago

If people were depending on the party for very important things, and the neighbors encouraged it, and gave no warning, then it would be fine to get angry.

If you’re depending on the party for very important things you need to ask the neighbor how long they promise to keep throwing the party. You don’t just get to assume they’re going to do it literally forever and get mad when they stop.

  • In this analogy, you ask and they decline to promise anything concrete about the future, just saying that they currently have no plans to change. Their statement is the same any time they're asked, with no early warning via that method.

    And, reminder, they keep encouraging people to use the party as an important foundation for their own efforts.

    Does that help explain why a sudden stop is causing harm to people that weren't being greedy? At which point anger is not an inherently bratty behavior.

    • If someone says “we have no plans to stop hosting this party, but we can’t promise anything concrete” and you decide to depend on that party without a backup, you’re behaving like an idiot.

      This analogy has been tortured to within an inch of its life though.

      People could keep using the old docker images while they trivially build their own.

      If you want to make the example fit it’s more like “hey we’re still having the party but we aren’t gonna to put up any new decorations. If you want to put up the new decorations we left our garage open, but you have to do it yourself“.

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