We all collectively move. Unless you have a massive amount of unmovable property to lose, that you're willing to die for, going to get torn to pieces by a drone seems like a stupid idea. Even if I'm the reason we win the war, my mom and dad probably won't be too happy receiving me in an urn with a complimentary food voucher. We can get a new house, No need to die over its bombed remains.
Does your family exist in a vacuum?
What happens to your family when the conqueror from the next country over rolls into town?
We all collectively move. Unless you have a massive amount of unmovable property to lose, that you're willing to die for, going to get torn to pieces by a drone seems like a stupid idea. Even if I'm the reason we win the war, my mom and dad probably won't be too happy receiving me in an urn with a complimentary food voucher. We can get a new house, No need to die over its bombed remains.
My family would be safely in another country ahead of time.
Your enemy is whoever is willing to sacrifice you for their goals, both offensive and defensive. Flags don't matter.
Thereis a huge difference between going to war somewhere and defending when being invaded