Comment by oconnor663

I think it's pretty rare to do a straight up atomic load of a refcount. (That would be the `use_count` method in C++ or the `strong_count` method in Rust.) More of the time you're doing either a fetch-add to copy the pointer or a fetch-sub to destroy your copy, both of which involve stores. Last I heard the fetch-add can use the "relaxed" atomic ordering, which should make it very cheap, but the fetch-sub needs to use the "release" ordering, which is where the cost comes in.