Comment by palmotea
2 months ago
> Frankly, AI boyfriends/girlfriends look a lot healthier to me than a lot of the stuff currently happening with dating at the moment.
Astoundingly unhealthy is still astoundingly unhealthy, even if you compare it to something even worse.
If there's a widespread and growing heroin epidemic that's already left 1/3 of society addicted, and a small group of people are able to get off of it by switching to cigarettes, I'm not going to start lecturing them about how it's a terrible idea because cigarettes are unhealthy.
Is it ideal? Not at all. But it's certainly a lesser poison.
> If there's a widespread and growing heroin epidemic that's already left 1/3 of society addicted, and a small group of people are able to get off of it by switching to cigarettes, I'm not going to start lecturing them about how it's a terrible idea because cigarettes are unhealthy.
> Is it ideal? Not at all. But it's certainly a lesser poison.
1. I do not accept your premise that a retreat into solipsistic relationships with a sycophantic chatbots is healthier than "the stuff currently happening with dating at the moment." If you want me to believe that, you're going to have to be more specific about what that "stuff" is.
2. Even accepting your premise, it's more like online dating is heroin and AI chatbots are crack cocaine. Is crack a "lesser poison" than heroin? Maybe, but it's still so fucking bad that whatever relative difference is meaningless.
> If you want me to believe that, you're going to have to be more specific about what that "stuff" is.
not the person you were talking to but I think for well over 50% of young men, dating apps are simply an exercise in further reducing one's self worth.
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