Comment by fuzzfactor

>don't value regrets packaged as advice, especially from people who never acted on their advice

>Better advice comes from things people actually did.

What happens when it takes quite a bit more focused effort to do something like not be on "social" media than it does to idle along with the mainstream?

The line is pretty blurry to begin with, and can be a moving target making it hard to know for sure whether you are doing, not doing, or being done :)