Comment by boltzmann-brain
6 hours ago
in 30+ years of software development i've never heard "just fork it" or "you're welcome to fork it" used as an encouragement and i've heard it as a dismissal countless times. the article is spot on, and your interpretation of the described real-life situation is a rosy-tinted hypothetical at best.
It's dismissive because most of the requests open source developers get need to be dismissed.
"Where can I send some cash for your hard work" is much rarer than "Here's my very complex edge use case that I need to support ASAP, I think it's quite shameful you don't support this already must not take you more than 5 minutes, come on people do it already my clients are waiting".
That brings to mind one of my favorite sayings:
"It may be open source, but that doesn't mean that it is afraid of money."
see, that's the problem, you immediately jump to a combative stance + assume the current maintainer is always right, which is exactly how the situations i presented happen in the first place
> i've heard it as a dismissal countless times.
a project owner have the right to be dismissive about anything regarding their own project. This is why "just fork it" is both dismissive, but also power.
If you are simply asking a project owner to do somethings you wanted (often for free, i might add), then why shouldn't they be dismissive?
If you have an idea for said project that the owner is dismissive about, then you fork it - prove that the idea is good.