Comment by cogman10

19 hours ago

Yes. Dictatorships suck, but what sucks more is a civil war powered by foreign governments doing a proxy war.

Syria is the prime example of this. A major reason for the civilian slaughter was foreign intervention trying regime change.

> Dictatorships suck, but what sucks more is a civil war powered by foreign governments doing a proxy war

It's a macabre study. But one could honestly argue that several countries in the latter category's populations are better off than North Korea's.

  • Maybe after the civil war, certainly not during it. If I had to pick where to live, I'd pick North Korea over Ukraine right now because it's a lot easier to live in a dictatorship than an active war zone. (This isn't me saying I want to live in NK, I don't).

    But I'd also point out that a lot of what makes it really suck to live in the worst places in the world isn't often the government but rather the international relationships. Turkey has a particularly brutal government, but it's Nato and EU ally status means that the civilians enjoy modern trade and travel.

    The worst times to be in NK was the 90s when there was an ongoing famine and the US refused to lift sanctions thinking it'd spark a civil war that overthrew the regime. It didn't.

    • >I'd pick North Korea over Ukraine right now because it's a lot easier to live in a dictatorship than an active war zone

      You can live a perfectly normal life in Kiev. It’s not exactly an active war zone, you see luxury cars worth hundreds of thousands of dollars on every corner. You can buy bottles of Petrus in 24 hour supermarkets and eat decent food at countless fancy restaurants.

      Goodwine in Kiev will also put US luxury grocers to shame. Ukraine might be at war, but the quality of life is hardly bad.

    • > I'd pick North Korea over Ukraine right now because it's a lot easier to live in a dictatorship than an active war zone

      To each their own. I wouldn't. In part because once you're in North Korea, you're not getting out. That isn't the case for Ukraine, Syria or any of the other war-torn countries.

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  • If you had to live in gaza or north korea right now, which would you choose?

    • > If you had to live in gaza or north korea right now, which would you choose?

      Me as me? Gaza. Because I'd get out. That's a bullshit answer, though, so I'll answer as a local. And there, it's honestly a coin toss because Gaza is possibly the shittiest war zone outside Africa right now. But if you said North Korea or Syria during its civil war? North Korea or Myanmar? I'm going with not Pyongyang.

      The only one where I'd honestly choose North Korea hands down is Sudan, because that's the one nobody really gives a shit about which means it's going to go on forever.

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  • You're making the mistake of correlating these proxy wars with any later improvements in these countries' living conditions. War is always detrimental to quality of life.

    • > You're making the mistake of correlating these proxy wars with any later improvements in these countries' living conditions

      ...nobody argued the proxy wars were good for those countries. Just that if you're turned into a random local in one of those theatres, chances are you're better off a decade or two later than if you're turned into a random North Korean.

> Dictatorships suck, but what sucks more is a civil war powered by foreign governments doing a proxy war.

Are you sure about this part?

  • Absolutely. No question.

    War isn't glamorous. It's mechanized death and torture destroying communities, families, and loved ones. And when it's powered by foreign governments, it's worse. Because the two colliding sides are armed to the gills with the best weapons in murder along with mercenaries and no oversight.

    Living in a dictatorship is hard but doable, There are literally generations of people that have survived and thrived in that sort of an environment. It's not preferable, for sure, but you still have your family, friends, and neighbors. None of them are trying to actively kill you. So long as you follow the rules, life in a dictatorship is generally predicable and the odds of the state making you specifically an example are low.

    • The only people who thrive in a dictatorship are its enforcers. And by the way a dictatorship needs quite a lot of them. That's how, decades after its fall, you get voices saying it wasn't all that bad, there were some nice things actually, or we should do it again.

      And also your neighbors absolutely will sell you out.

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    • So if a dictatorship decides to invade a neighboring democratic country, the people there should not fight and let them take over, because war is worse than dictatorship, right?

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