Comment by palmotea
13 hours ago
> Well as the person you are replying to said, it's hard to have an opinion when you haven't actually tried it. I don't find it like that at all.
I don't need to try pair programming because I know how that level of constant social interaction makes me feel.
> Otherwise, saying it sucks without giving it a real try is akin to saying, "I went for a run and didn't lose any weight so I feel that running is exhausting with no benefit."
No, what you're doing is sort of like if you're raving about the beach, and I say I don't like bright sun, and you insist I need to try the beach to have an opinion on if I like it or not.
I wouldn't call "work" social interaction but I get ya. It's my biggest pet peeve of this industry: it has a whole lot of people who just don't want to talk to anyone. It is what it is, though.
> I wouldn't call "work" social interaction but I get ya.
IMHO, social interaction is anything where you interact with other people.
> It's my biggest pet peeve of this industry: it has a whole lot of people who just don't want to talk to anyone.
That's very black and white thinking. I like talking to other people, but too much of it is draining. Every day spending all-day or even a half-day working directly with someone else? No thanks.
It's not black and white because that is my whole point: you have to push through the terribleness at the beginning to start feeling the benefits, and most people aren't willing to. I'm a _massive_ introvert myself, btw. But like, I'm not trying to convince you of anything.