Comment by ianbutler

18 hours ago

So much of what I know from women in my life is that the human element of medicine is almost a strict negative for them. As a guy it hasn't been much better, but at least doctors listen to me when I say something.

One of, if not THE biggest challenge in getting treatment is getting past insurance rules designed to deny treatment. This is much, much easier when you're able to convince a doctor (and/or trained medical staff) to argue on your behalf. If you can't get those folks to listen to you, that's probably not gonna happen. You might have to go through several different practices before you find a sympathetic ear.

Now replace some / all of those humans with... A machine whose function also needs insurance approval.

It's gonna end badly.

  • Sounds like we need to dismantle and replace this broadly dysfunctional system at multiple points. It's not like the US insurance landscape is anywhere close to the best way of handling healthcare if you look at many places in the world.

    • I used to think this too. But the past couple of years have soured my taste for "dismantle and replace" of vital institutions.

      I still think healthcare needs to be reformed, and I hope that insurance will someday be a thing of a past, but I've hung up my chain saw for now.

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  • The whole system has basic flaws in how's financing set up.

    There is an intermediary between customers and seller and it's allowed to take percentage of the sale. No such entity will ever work in the interest of the consumer. It has every incentive to inflate prices. Intermediary is needed but it should be financed by buyers with flat fee (possibly for additional incentives that reinforce the desired behavior). The tragedy here is that initially it was. But it was deemed too expensive for the buyers and got privatized which made it vastly more expensive in the long run.

    Insurance is also wrong. Insurance is gambling and gambling needs restrictions. You are allowed to take people's money without providing any service most of the time, so you shouldn't be allowed to refuse legal service for that privilege.

Perhaps, but I don't have much optimism for what this ends up looking like if it's an AI you have to convince to listen to you. In the spaces where this is already happening (rescruitment comes to mind), things are not looking good..

Agreed. Last time I was sick I said my fevers were pushing up to 100 and they said it's not a concern until 100.4. felt like an odd number. It's 38 C. Because my dramatic undersampling of my temperature was 0.4 degrees lower than their rounded threshold through some unit conversions, I clearly didn't have a fever. That's not a very human touch

Yes, yes, but when was your last period?

This even translates to the pediatric space. I took all of my kids to the pediatrician because either they don't make comments to me like they do to my wife, or I don't take shit from them. I'm not sure which. Here's an example:

My wife and daughter were there and the doctor asked what kind of milk my daughter was drinking. She said "whole milk" and the doctor made a comment along the lines of "Wow, mom, you really need to switch to 2%". To understand this, though, you need to understand that my daughter was _small_. Like they had to staple a 2nd sheet of paper to the weight chart because she was below the available graph space. It wasn't from lack of food or anything like that, she's just small and didn't have much of an appetite.

So I became the one to take the kids there. Instead of chastising me, they literally prescribed cheeseburgers and fettuccine alfredo.

My daughter is in her 20s now and is still small -- it's just the way she is. When she goes to see her primary, do you know what their first question is? "When was your last period."

  • My experiences broadly support your conclusions.

    However, your argument focuses on the routine intake instead of any listening part. The fact that the doctor measures height, weight, temperature, and blood pressure on intake and then asks about LMP doesn’t surprise me… that’s the part of the script where you just provide the data before you bring up concerns.

    Not to say the doctor was not a jerk, just that your argument doesn’t do much for me.

  • Yes? That's a very important piece of information, and I hope would be a thing a doctor asks, especially if there are concerns about weight or nutrition.

    • She's not there about her weight, though. I highly encourage you to talk to women about their experiences here.

      The weight thing was not the key aspect of my original comment. They chastised my wife for continuing to give my daughter whole milk while being underweight, but did not make similar comments to me. That was the point.

      For women, their pains and problems are far too often whisked away by hand waving and "it's hormones and periods" and serious issues are often overlooked. Very little has changed in that area over the last twenty years.

  • medical industry must be going for some long term achievement in how much they disbelieve, mistreat, and degrade women going to them.

    I wonder how many units of their training courses are spent on this and how much is spent on the cultural reinforcement of it.

    • Yes, let's pretend that the bias does not exist, that is helpful. It certainly doesn't have to do with the fact that it's currently a 60/40 split in active male vs female physicians. Or that women are more likely to be taken seriously by doctors:

          * https://www.health.harvard.edu/pain/the-dangerous-dismissal-of-womens-pain 
          * https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10937548/
      

      Are you really unwilling to admit that such a bias exists?

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  • > My daughter is in her 20s now and is still small -- it's just the way she is. When she goes to see her primary, do you know what their first question is? "When was your last period."

    Is that supposed to be a problem? How does it connect to the story in your comment?

    The question seems to be warranted to me, since being underweight can stop you from menstruating. So if you find someone thin and her last period was off in the distant past, you can conclude that there's a problem and something should be done about it; if it was a couple of weeks ago, you can conclude that she's fine.

    (It could also just be something that is automatically assessed as a potential indicator of all kinds of different things. Notably pregnancy. For me, it bothered me that whenever you have an appointment at Kaiser for any reason, part of their checkin procedure is asking you how tall you are. I'd answer, but eventually I started pointing out to them that I wasn't ever measuring my height and they were just getting the same answer from my memory over and over again. [By contrast, they also take your weight every time, but they do that by putting you on a scale and reading it off.] The fact that my height wasn't being remeasured didn't bother them; I'm not sure what that question is for.)

    • I’m a normal weight, and get asked the same question. More importantly, I can tell them, “I have a regular cycle” and they WILL NOT take that as an answer. I HAVE to give them a date, and they will ask me to make one up if I can’t remember or want to decline giving them that information.

      Particularly given the alarming stories of people being prosecuted for having miscarriages, it feels ridiculous.

      If anything I hope more automated diagnostics and triage could help women and POC get better care, but only if there’s safeguards against prejudice. There’s studies showing different rates of pain management across races and sexes, for example. A broken bone is a broken bone, regardless of sex or race.

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    • Perhaps I wasn't as clear as I could have been. My point was that doctors treat women differently than men, even when they're the parents. I don't think that it's inherently malicious, but there is absolutely a bias.

      You are asking how it connects, and it absolutely doesn't. But they keep asking and won't accept "it's regular" as an answer.

      She's in her 20s and is seeing her primary for routine things, not because of her weight -- that part of the story was about how they chastised my wife for giving her whole milk but said absolutely nothing to me about it later on.

    • You're very much over thinking this. That's the first question every doctor asks a woman, and legitimate problems are often overlooked because of it.

At which point I'd ask: how much of that is baked into the AI now?

It doesn't have opinions, research, direction of its own. Is this a path of codifying the worst elements of human society as we've known it, permanently?