Comment by erikerikson

A lot of databases have a uniqueness constraint that is basically a register level compare and replace. Others have a if_not_exists which is nearly the same. If you're not targeting a serious throughput use case, it's enough. If you are then there are lots of solutions/alternatives that completely avoid coordination. On the other hand, maybe tracing protocols are robust to out of order delivery. If that won't do them sequence numbers tied to monotonic sequence IDs should be plenty. If not then I'd need very serious conversations to be convinced you're not wasting everyone's time