Please don't spam people looking for employment. It's just cruel
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Earlier I posted in a “Who wants to be hired?” thread, looking for a place where I could apply my experience in hospitality, food tech and automation.
A couple hours later I received an email:
“Hi Ilia,
I saw your comment on the June Who’s Hiring thread. I build production-ready TypeScript and Python systems that integrate LLMs into real workflows, with particular focus on RAG, agent orchestration, and clear blah-blah-blah”
Come on. I am a forced immigrant with a wife, a cat, rent and crushing debt, who’s been unemployed for 6 months. I am naturally an extremely optimistic person, but boy is energy on the low by now. And every e-mail in my inbox, especially one starting with something related to my job search, is a glimmer of hope. Just to be crushed by what comes next. Yes, it’s a minor cut, but those compound.
Please just don’t do this.
Maybe add a skill to your Claude Code called “empathy”? You can have your Claw access a “be considerate of other people’s experiences” MCP server! Or just ask your “Daily Grind Reminder” Telegram bot to recommend a good book of fiction from time to time. Just to develop some humanity.
Sorry for venting.
My email is filled with junk from cybersecurity "experts" telling me that my open source project is "very compromised" and that they will gladly reveal to me what the issue is, if I commit to paying them a bug bounty. I get at least a few every week. I hate them, but I feel like we are well past the point where in any place where there is money to be made, the majority of cold outreach will be from semi-personalized AI agents. You just have to accept that most of the time your get contacted by someone, it is likely not a human.
Whether it helps or not—the typical contact like this hasn’t been a human for decades now. What I’m seeing these days is materially almost identical to what went out ten years ago. Basic form letter with a cover sentence or paragraph of either no relevance, or a tenuous but normally ill-researched claim at relevance.
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Reminds me of all the recruiters who reach out to me saying they're working on filling some engineer position but never say the company name, and when asked, they want to have a call.
Stop wasting my time, STATE THE COMPANY UPFRONT AND AT THE TOP, preferably in the subject line
It seems like all paths with recruiters lead to the phone call. I really wish some of them had an email only option.
That stopped being super frustrating for me about a year ago. Wishing it were the other way though…
They can't, otherwise a significant fraction of the people they reach out to would just skip the head hunter and contact the company directly.
Same reason these same head hunters will usually strip any direct-contact details out of your resume before sending on to companies -- they don't want those companies running around them and contacting the candidate directly.
IMO, these people are all grifters and uses-car-salesman. Their goal is to get as many people as possible to use them to change jobs so they get bonuses. They provide little-to-no value add in the actual process and will actively try to shovel you toward shitty companies and dead-end roles, despite how well they dress them up.
You are ~20-50%~ cheaper (typical is 30% IIRC) in the first year of your employment if you are a direct hire instead of going through a recruiter, from a hiring manager's perspective. If you switch jobs often this compounds to make your offer chances lower as well if you're going through a head hunter (I've been part of these discussions from hiring side).
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We all know the company is going to be Amazon lol.
this is what a pi based LLM is great for; give it it's own email address, then say something like "I'm intrigued, please talk to my security expert, CC'd" and cc the pi.
bots talking to bots- thats all there is
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As a general rule, if someone ever posts any kind of career troubles on any platform, the only correct responses should contain sympathy or a relevant career opportunity. Anything else is so callous.
Hang in there Ilia, you're not the only one hurting, and don't apologize for venting. Most of us in the HN community are far more supportive.
>if someone ever posts any kind of career troubles on any platform
Wait, is everyone who posts on who wants to be hired a sad down-and-out unemployed waif at the end of their rope? I'm replying generally to a variety of comments in here that are painting quite an image of that forum, and honestly I think it does a huge disservice to its participants. It makes it out to be unhireable charity cases.
I have been lucky to find employment at will, and when I don't want to work in a traditional job for someone I can keep myself occupied through consulting, aside from "side" income from projects. Yet I've posted in "who wants to be hired" before, seeing if there are some really interesting projects in niche or burgeoning realms, and I've actually found some great people who I've kept connections with, and some fun engagements. I didn't know it was a "career troubles" venue.
And I understand that someone is on edge and got their hopes up, but I mean, spam is just a reality of the internet, especially if you post your contact info online. Mark it as spam and let the flag of shame eventually sink the sender.
You're right. It's obviously a mix. And I'm like you, I put it out there to see what will come up, but I won't starve tomorrow.
Still, the sentiment of: professionals should behave professionally, and this forum should be collegial and also recognize things are pretty tough out there for many people right now... that stands.
FWIW I lived through the .com crash and what is going on right now maybe isn't the same intensity of depth of job loss but the churn and intensity absolutely going on for longer and with far more ambiguity.
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just be a nice person bro
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Those people don't think they're spamming. They're caught up in their own hype and think they're offering the opportunity of a lifetime -- even though they don't know what they want, exactly.
A good general tip is that every email should begin with a "bottom line, up front" (BLUF).
Tell people what you want, need, or recommend first. Then provide supporting details.
I'll always be grateful to HN because I got my previous job thanks to it and it was the best thing ever, but the spam thing here is absolutely true. I've getting many of ones that send a calendly link for a "collaboration partnership" with a really bogus description and from email addresses that reek to spam farms. They will send you a following email with a "Hello?" a couple hours of so after sending the first one.
The previous month also got a couple from "Mark M, the founder of kinect.io" about a "quick thought about your resume" that just sounded like they will get you into a pyramid scheme or something.
Mourning my dog, unemployed, and all I get is spam/scam emails when trying to get a job, is not nice at all.
I got one of those too, from "Alya", which seems to be an LLM-based tool the creator describes as his daughter.
Beyond the usual rudeness of spam, that's a little creepy.
I also got the Alya message.
In addition to all the creepiness, the email had a link to stripe to pay them $500? I wonder if the email is hiding a prompt injection somewhere to trick a bot into paying?
You should call these folks/companies out by name, they aren't respecting you, your time, or situation.
I don't think they're actual companies. One of the more recent emails I received contains this bit:
"If you're already employed, I can also support you in taking on additional contract work. I'll guide you through the entire interview process to help you succeed and get hired. In this partnership, your main role would be attending client meetings, while I handle all development and written communication. We would then split the income, with you receiving 40% of the project earnings."
Guy introduced himself as a "senior full-stack developer with over nine years of experience in web, mobile, and iOS development".
Oddly specific number.
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I got that too, and "creepy" is the same word that came to mind.
For one, the choice of child, is already creepy even if you refer to a pet as a child, but a software system as a substitute for childbearing, it reminds me of the claw cult, you can call it a company, a system, a project.
And calling it a daughter, man I don't even want to get into it.
> For one, the choice of child, is already creepy even if you refer to a pet as a child, but a software system as a substitute for childbearing, it reminds me of the claw cult, you can call it a company, a system, a project.
On the other hand, I feel like the obsession with childbearing (constant fear about birth rates, pressure on women to become mothers, etc.) to be a lot more creepy than someone having wholesome protective love for their pets.
I fully agree with you about the creepiness of software "children", but I can't really relate to the pet part. It's honestly weird to me when people just kind of think of their pets as like, non-human roommates or something, when there's clearly one entity that has a responsibility to care for the other one since they're dependent on them for food, water, and shelter.
Have you gotten the "hey, wanna be a North Korean proxy?" offer yet?
Does that happen?? I’ve always been curious how those things go down
They say they're a software developer from a poor country looking for someone willing to leave their laptop on overnight for a 50% split of the paycheck. I got one a long time ago, they even mentioned they need help because their can't do the work from an IP of their country. Needless to say I just trashed the email and only figured out it was one of those after reading about the NK employee scandal on here.
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Usually not so bluntly in the first email but I’ve seen a few emails in my spam that seem likely to have been leading that direction.
Usually it's the Phillipines or an African country or something, but so very many times.
How much does it pay?
Going rate seems to be 18 months: https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/two-us-nationals-sentenced-fa...
Amazingly, Gmail dumps those straight to spam bucket for me. And yep, I get them.
I just started getting a barrage of these last month. They're just scraping those threads. I don't think there's much to do about it. These aren't "real" hn folks that actually participate here.
That's because you all share your email addresses directly in your posts. I put my email address in my profile, and anyone genuinely interested is just one click away from getting my address from there or from my website which i also link to. Aside from a handful of exceptions I get no spam whatsoever, despite posting for years and not obscuring my address at all. And what I do get is most likely hand-written.
We have the technology to scrape your profile page too.
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The people scraping were too dumb to do it so far, but you just reminded them to start doing it.
Alrhough technically HN could detect bots opening tons of profiles and feed them wrong data.
Automated outbound is a real problem now. I think LinkedIn actually has a pretty good model in which it costs money to send a message if the other party does not reply. Lucky for them of course! Nice to be able to collect 100% of the value of a needed incentive structure!
Targetted automated spam, most likely written by an LLM you say. By any chance do you see the text "agentmail" anywhere in the headers/body of that email?
By some stroke of super-luck, my entry in the "recruiter spam E-mail list" has my first name wrong! So it's super easy to tell which unsolicited "opportunities" are fake. They all start with "Hi, [incorrect name], I am reaching out because..." And yes, for the last 2 years or so, 100% of these unsolicited E-mails include my fake name.
Best of luck to you, I hope you find something soon.
Regrettably, Linkedin doesn't let you begin your display name with an emoji any more. I always enjoyed/despaired at the many cold call recruitment messages coming in from obvious bots reading "Hi :beer:!"
Not to troll but what is a "forced immigrant"?
A more than valid question! It's the only way I could figure out how to economically convey "I am a Russian who decided to leave Russia to not be complicit and because my history of protests and support for opposition makes it scary to stay, while I completely understand the level of privilege I'm enjoying and can't call myself a refugee even remotely". Even though I always wanted to live abroad, I didn't decide when and how exactly I would emigrate, hence "forced".
Based on the name, he's either Ukrainian running away from the war, or Russian, running away from being complicit in the war. Shitty situation to be in either way.
Refugee? Asylum seeker? Move to support family? Could be many things forcing relocation.
Ok yeah. Hope OP gets a job soon.
You had to leave and you can't go back.
That's a forced emigrant.
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Didn’t emigrate from a middle class European tech job to an upper-middle class American tech job.
Lebanese who got their apartment blown up
Refugee? Draft dodger?
I got a recruiter that is apparently AI. Get Clera is the name. I already banned their domain to spam.
If you are coming to me as AI, I will ban/mark spam you. Period.
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I'm still getting this sort of spam to an address I posted here 5+ years ago. Recently it intensified, which leads me to believe it's automated.
I guess we can officially add a third entry and, keeping the alphabetical order, make it: "death, spam and taxes"
I was once suggested creating a 'fake job posting' to promote my startup, didn't do it for the same reason you described. Also the reason I have deep hatred for operators trying to exploit jobseekers or the ones trying to scam already indebted people.
Marketers ruin everything ;)
> Maybe add a skill to your Claude Code called “empathy”?
Laughed way too hard
yes, i got an email as well for a guy who built like a platform and honestly I'm not interested in wasting my time in your project.
Yeah, recruiters already were complete assholes in general, now they can scale their cuntiness..
I once made the mistake to reply one of those threads with a public email address, it's now an incubator for AI-generated spam. And not just slop text: now we're getting full vibe-coded HTML UI..
Example: https://bsky.app/profile/francoisbest.com/post/3mhq6znfcxk2d
The other side of this isn't sunshine and roses either.
Imagine you're a reasonably talented developer and just can't seem to break into a good job. You've been working delivery or something to make ends meet, and somebody finally offers a tech job. It isn't much, but your kids are hungry. You'll take it.
You show up, and it's everything the cynics here could have told you. Spamming people for money is the least of your worries. Whatever, at least you're actually programming, and maybe this is your chance to break into one of those mythical "good" jobs people keep talking about -- a stepping stone.
In an effort to impress, you figure out how to leveraging the HN who's hiring thread. It takes a bit of convincing for management to give you the time, but you're eager to prove yourself, and that enthusiasm is a bit infectious. Somebody signs off on the project.
It's a total flop though. You get zero conversions, nothing, nada. You've been spending the last week frantically debugging, getting more and more desperate as you realize what this means for your career prospects in a cutthroat environment like the one you're trying to appease.
As luck would have it, you stumble across this post today. Then the weight of your fuckup dawns on you. You spammed the "who wants to be hired" thread instead. Not fully yet recovered from the shock, you hear your boss call you over. "Do you have a minute to talk about something important?" There's a glint of orange on their desktop, and a pit sinks through the bottom of your stomach.
You're good at writing
yesterday I got a phone call from a company wanted to send to my employer some k8s shit.
i have no decision power in the company i work for, plus I don't know where this guy took my number
By the way it's also the same way around with "Who is hiring" threads, tried posting a job there and my email just instantly filled with all sorts of letter-slop, hundreds of emails which are infeasible for a single human looking for a job candidate to sort out, some of them are just generated to match the job description, but it's completely unrelated experience listed in the CV, some of them are just straight spam promoting some yet another AI shit. They still keep coming to this day, few months after posting in that thread. It's very hard to look for a job, or look for a candidate nowadays by using the public channels where you just leave your email in the open thanks to the wicked automations some highly disrespected individuals are eager to keep setting up. I maybe received one or two letters written by the real people. Who is hiring and Who wants to be hired seems to be perpetually doomed by AI, good luck to you Ilia.
Github-based spam has always been a problem but it feels like in recent months it has become worse. I keep getting e-mails about being "hand-picked" for new exciting jobhunting platforms - the e-mails of course are styled just like any page you get when you ask claude to "make me a moden html + css webpage".
The worst part of hustle culture is that what I believe to be 99% of the noise is:
* Stupid things that will never succeed
* From ignorant people just trying to make a quick buck, whom I want no involvement in
Nobody believes in your "spam every github e-mail account" jobhunting site. Thousands have spammed before you. You are nothing but noise.
My BASIC programming discord server gets weekly and sometimes daily "full stack developers" looking to sell their services to us.
It's just spam.
I have seen the same thing in a local slack I frequent. Not weekly, but once a month or so.
It doesn't last long, but it sure is annoying. Sometimes they even join and then spam DM rather than post in a public channel.
It must pay off often enough to make it it worth it, but I can't imagine hiring someone I found through a spam message.
So wait, are they trying to sell something to unemployed people?
I'm guessing the spam bot mistook the "Who wants to be hired" thread for a "Who's hiring" thread. The bot creator needs to tweak their prompt - or, more ideally, they need to get a life.
I'm guessing this is just LLM-enabled mass spam not particularly targeted at unemployed people
You will find the unemployed are a prime target for scammers/grifters.
Targeting the desperate is profitable.
I've been getting a lot of job spam in my email the past week or two, not sure if it's from here or Github mostly.
Its certainly from here, I'm sometimes post on who wants to be hired using unique emails and along of few real letters there is always tons of spam.
I've gotten at least three, and I haven't replied to those threads in a while. Safe to say it's a problem.
The primary use of AI seems to be spam. It's so gross.
In fairness, that's always been the primary use of ML - between spam and spam filtering.
Ordinary, non-elite jobseekers (at least in the US) NEED a job or they will be homeless. If you want somebody to stop asking for a job, give them a job.
Being in (important) need for a job doesn't make it any more legit to blindly spam others - especially those in the same boat.
Maybe not, but it does mean that the request for empathy in this post is completely backwards. It's a minor annoyance for the poster, and life or death for the sender. I get spam to tell me about promotions for Australian McDonalds locations I've never been to (I live in the US, have never been to Australia, and never intend to go). Surely he can muster enough empathy to click delete on this along with the 40k other messages he is getting from automated, venture-backed spam outfits.
I don’t understand how that follows. The poster in this thread is looking for a job. How are they supposed to give someone a job if they’re searching for one themselves?
A whole lot of bullshit artists and noise out here now and it's frustrating/demoralizing. You're absolutely right to be venting.
Best wishes and hope things work out soon.
The product need here is an LLM 'answering machine' that accepts emails, determines if the email is spam or a valid email or something in between. If It's in between it could say something like 'Hello, I am [user]s email filtering service. I think your email might be automatically generated, can you please tell me why [user] would need to see this? and make a judgement based on the response.
No spammer will manually reply to that, some AI spambots might, but it should be apparent to the LLM that's what is happening.
I accidentally commented in the who is hiring thread rather than who wants to be hired and I immediately got a slew of automated emails (some of which blindly pasted some of my quickly-deleted comment into their greeting) on various time delays. Some multiple times within the month, even though my comment was deleted within about a minute.
This is terrible and needs to stop.
One of them even started blasting their identical message to about 8 different addresses at my mail server (careers@, talent@, jobs@, etc., all of which don't exist and I have never used) with stuff like "Would a 20-minute call next week make sense?". This is such ashamed pre-rejection shit that it betrays a near-zero level of confidence in their own ability. What employer wants someone like that? Employers want someone determined to make a difference, not someone who is groveling to avoid asking too much of you.
This is a side-quest for post "AGI".
That's horrific for people to even think of doing that and I'm sorry that's happened to you. You have my condolences. Too many people in tech are so utterly shameless, unfortunately.
This has been happening for the last 4-5 months. If you post on a WWTBH thread.
> Too many people in tech are so utterly shameless
This applies to literally all of society, and has absolutely nothing to do with tech. Every society, everywhere. I mean, the guy sending that spam probably is pretty hard on their luck as well (and will probably eventually post a sad story about their lot and how they're just trying to hustle, etc). That doesn't excuse it, but it's turtles all the way down.
You're half right. Tech isn't what causes people to behave like this, but it does very much enable their behavior. Tech is what allows them to reach you and ruin your day with unprecedented efficiency.
Before internet access became as ubiquitous as it is today, the vast majority of these scammers were stuck wallowing in their misery in their own little corner of the world, far away from you, unable to do much more than maybe call your phone.
And before the rise of LLMs, they had to write their spam by hand instead of being able to spit out thousands of customized scam messages with zero effort.
You can filter a few of these by asking that they include some specific word in the subject. These spammers won't, and you can just delete those.
actually they can, if they use AI it's pretty easy for their llm understand it and mention it in the email.
> I am naturally an extremely optimistic person, but boy is energy on the low by now.
That's what they are relying on, and that's why they will never stop. You're asking sociopaths to be empathetic at the one time when their sociopathy pays off big - when people are desperate.
Name and shame.
Another trend I've seen is what I would term .. bottom-feeder ... services trying to take advantage and exploit people's hardship. AI generated e-mails that then do things like this (and this is only one of these kinds of things I've received):
"Right now, we are running a $35,000 API Hackathon. If you build the best tool on our data, we acquire your codebase for up to $20k.
But here is the real hook for your job search: To get API access, you must pass our Architectural System Design Audit. If your submission clears our technical bar, you don't just get an API key—you get instant VIP access to our job pipeline, and I will personally bypass HR to pitch your profile to hiring engineering leaders."
a) Written by AI [LLM shibboleths all over it]
b) Getting people to do interviews for things that aren't jobs.
c) Trying to get fire-sale "purchase" on people's IP assets / work?
d) Acting like a recruiter, but actually gatekeeping for jobs that... may not exist.
People are using the HN hiring forum posts to produce these.
Be careful out there people.
AI agent sales has been a massive failure. Simple issues like its inability to distinguish a low quality lead from a completely wrong lead aren’t possible yet.
This isn’t agi. Or anything in the way to bring it.
We are in mass delusional state.
> been unemployed for 6 months
Slightly unrelated, but years ago I went in similar situation, and at around the same months I was in the same mindset, anxious and frustrated, but months after that while still unemployed, something snapped in my brain and I just stopped caring, kinda fuck it all, despite start getting offers and employers are reaching out, I used to ignore some and replying late to others, and when I got the offers I was being too critical about them.. eventually things went back to normal but I have no idea what was that, the confidence and the risk taking were off the charts!
Just hang in there, it will get better, that’s how life works, like a sinusoidal wave, ups and downs.
Honestly, could just stop at "please don't spam people". Good luck on your hunt OP, hope you find something soon.
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my sincere(!) sympathies, but realistically this won't reach anyone relevant. best of luck in the job search.
Speak for yourself, I’m voting this to the top.
Me too! Let's be supportive HN, we never know when you might have a difficult time in your life and needs help ;)
Well, yeah, but spammers still aren't going to care. We are not talking about decent or reflective people here.
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The internet will always be a potentially unfriendly place and you need to accept that instead of expecting it to magically change because spammers hurt your feelings. You mention that you are an entrepreneur as well, which makes me believe that you need to learn how to overcome your fear of rejection. Check out the book "Rejection Proof" by Jia Jiang.