Comment by InsideOutSanta

14 hours ago

I think it's reasonably common for people to understand what makes them unsuccessful but be unable or unwilling to resolve the problem.

For me, I know that one major reason for putting an upper limit on my success is my inability to form effective professional relationships. I know I should go to events and talk to people and use these relationships to my advantage, but that's just not something I've ever been good at, and I find it so incredibly unpleasant that I also just don't want to do it.

How do you know that's limiting your success?

Do you think the most successful people got that way by attending events? I thought they were hacking in their garages, building great products.

  • > How do you know that's limiting your success?

    I know there were opportunities I could have benefited from if I'd had better relationships with specific people.

    > Do you think the most successful people got that way by attending events?

    That's not what I said.